It is natural for parents to be concerned when their child goes off to college. Although your son or daughter may feel they are more than ready to start the next chapter in their lives, they may also have worries. There are ways to prepare you and your child for college, by talking about them in advance.
Talk about what to expect
You and your college-bound child can discuss concerns either one of you may have, and then talk about ways to resolve these problems. Pay special attention to your child when they have any “what if” questions. Be sure to answer these questions with confidence.
Bring up concerns you both may have
Assuming that parents have already discussed sex, alcohol, and drug use with their child, this is a good time for parents to give them a refresher course.
Allow them to voice their concerns
If your child plans to have a job while attending college, help your child use the money they earn wisely. Discuss expenses that you will continue to take care of, and ways for your child to get the most out of the money they will make.
Agree to keep in touch on a schedule
To ease your mind and your child’s about leaving home, agree to keep in touch on a weekly basis by phone. Reassure the child and yourself, that although they will not be living at home, you are still just a phone call away, and that you will always be there for them.
Above all else, be there for them before and after they leave the house to go off on their own.
